Kalim (23), Stockholm, escort tjej

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Something has been bugging me for a while and I thought I would post it in hopes of gaining some unbiased perspectives. My fiancee and a friend of mine both work for the same company. I didn't meet my fiancee through the friend, and they don't work in the same department or on the same floor, but they did meet each other through me and have become friends. I really do think it's great that my friends like my fiancee and vice versa, but I feel like I am getting a little jealous of these two. They chat on and off throughout each workday through instant messenger, and sometimes send cell phone text messages back and forth on the evenings or weekends. I really don't know what they talk about, but I'm sure it's just general stuff. The thing that bothers me is that often I will tell one of them something, and news gets to the other before I can tell the other myself. For example, I mentioned something today to my friend about having a reception I was going to on Saturday. Within minutes, my fiancee IM'd me and asked me about it. Many times, my friend won't ask me if I want to go out or do something, but will ask my fiancee first, who in turn asks me. The worst is when he asks her to go out, then calls me and says that they've made plans and I "have" to go. This relationship that they have has been eating at me some, and not because I think anything is going on - my fiancee is very trustworthy and true and so is my friend. But I feel like a third wheel sometimes when they are together or my fiancee mentions stuff that they talk about. Am I over-reacting? If not, how can I approach them about this to make myself feel better while at the same time not coming across as jealous or ruining their friendship? Thanks for any advice!

Debonnaire

And yes, gently tell her how these things make you feel. It's okay to talk and compromise on things like the rings and pictures by the bed if she expects to be in an exclusive relationship with you.