Helgerud (24), Borlänge, escort tjej

Heredia

smoking hot trailer trash and definitely NOT liz vicious

Cares

two really hot girls

Auxilium

Avoidant Concerned

Rectangle

No. I'm the other way. I've found it's easier emotionally just to 'go for it'. If I let myself be vulnerable then the sparks fly or not. None of this in between 'what if' guessing. Sure, we can get hurt but even that reality isn't just a negative..it also cleanses quicker and allows us to pick ourselves up and try again.

Overlock

What exactly is she doing to try to ruin your R with him? Is she following and stalking him? Touching him? Harassing him?

Retem

I just don't know if I should hang around and give her time to work things out or if I should just cut and run.

Freedman

Anyway, what's done is done. What do you really expect her to say? Why do you need her to respond? I think you're still quite threatened by her, to be honest. I'm not saying your're wrong to feel threatened - your boyfriend has allowed this continue for far too long. But you shouldn't need any more closure. You should be asking yourself why your boyfriend did.

Grutten

its one thing to maybe be friends with an ex, but NOT one who she was having fun sex with a few short months ago. Like you are supposed to be cool with them hanging out alone.

Showers

I reference 'men' only in that they get alot of peer pressure and encouragement to go out and have lots of casual sex....

Chukkar

This guy sports "Elvis" chops..... That would make me think twice. In the same that I don't know if I could date someone with a giant waxed mustache, I think it looks silly.

Anonymously

A pretty beach beauty in a very nice bikini bathing suit!

Omina

No, that is your interpretation. I already said that unless I am interested in seeing a guy again which would mean that I am enjoying every aspect of his company, ie. intelligence, values, conversational skills, physical attractiveness and overall chemistry, then I would not mind at all going dutch as I will never see him again. It is only when I am interested in a guy that I care for the detail of him offering to pay.

William

Seek therapy, please. I am saying this out of kindness and concern for YOU. A 14 year old girl is nowhere like a woman. She'd be more like a boy!

Worthless

You know what? That is true and a good way to look at things. I've told myself that before but it only worked for a short while. I guess I just have to keep pushing it. The only difference with me is that we live in the same town so I am highly bound to run into her and her friends. I'm suprised I haven't yet *knock on wood* bc just about all of my friends haved run into at some point or another. Before I was afraid to go to certain places bc I didn't want to run into them. But I'm starting to think maybe I do need to run into them. Well not really purposely run into them but more of not to avoid certain places JUST bc they hang out there to. That's not fair for me, ya know? This is a small place so there aren't that many hot spots to go party/drink at or go to college.

Canaster

I mean, come on.... I remember hanging out with a girl who used to have imaginary friends and I thought it was weird then...

Tocher

Exactly.. maybe it is just a matter of how a person was socialized. Some people think it's normal and perfectly OK to do this, others (like me & you) think it's rude. I never heard any man in my family doing this in front of their woman. My dad never did, nor my uncles, grandfathers, or brothers. But the interesting thing now that I think of it is that the guy I'm seeing - I met his dad and he did it in front of his wife - even in talking about me! But when I mentioned that to my guy he denied that he was anything like his dad in that way!

Scottsdale

I just hope it works out.